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In conjunction with Buckinghamshire MIND 

and the Slough Happiness Collective.

Increase your confidence

and achieve your goals quickly

and with more fun!

 Tammy Rolfe

      Owner & founder of

The Motivated Mummies & Meet Up for Confidence 


Be the person you want your child to be!


Get my free guide, “Reducing Anxietyand start confidently showing up as your best self.


“Tammy is a shining example of what she teaches, proof that anxiety can not only be overcome but can be turned into something that no longer holds you back but inspires you to become stronger."

Confidence is a funny old thing. It is very hard to define, but has a huge impact on your life.


For me, it means self acceptance,  faith in your abilities,  self esteem and ability to stand up for yourself.

My rock bottom was not when my children's dad left, the bailiffs were knocking, I had no money and I was suffering with depression and anxiety.
Even though it was a terrible time, people understood why I felt so bad, and I understood too. It made sense why I was so unhappy, bad things were happening.
My rock bottom was years after.
When I was happily married to my best friend, I had spare money in the bank, my business was successful.
Crazy huh?
The trouble was I still felt sad but nobody understood! 😔 " What more do you want?" people often said. It still rings in my ears.
I wanted to feel worthy, I wanted inner happiness, I wanted to feel like I deserved to be alive, I didn't think that was too much to ask. But as I had all the outside bits, people didn't get it.
That was my rock bottom. 😢
But when you hit rock bottom it can force you to sort your life out, and that's what I did!😁
It wasn't easy, I had a lot to work through and I'm still working through some bits, but I'm up and feeling good. I'm happy and I feel worthy and my inner happiness matches my outer happiness now which means I am enjoying life and achieving my goals 💞
Does your inner happiness match your outer life?

Do you feel worthy, succesful and overall happy? If not, did you know you don't have to stay feeling that way. There are things you can do to change that, and it is not as hard as you may imagine.

I believe confidence is everything! It affects your relationships, your career, and your happiness. I also believe there is a huge difference between a deep inner confidence, and a fake cocky confidence. 

If you are looking for the true authenic "I am unapologetically me" kind, then you are in the right place. 

If you would like to know why I am so passionate, you can read my story here.


Read my story

 "I have taken a leap to start my business because of Tammy, and I cannot thank her enough for showing me how to not only believe in myself but how to get others to believe in me too!”

Bianka Sharpe

How I can support you on your journey.

Sick of struggling and would love to have more belief in yourself?

I know how you feel. I was struggling for years, stuck in a negative cycle of self critism and doubt. Some days not even wanting to be around any more. If you know what I mean then this platform is for you. I've got you until you've got you.

Online courses

For Mums in Business who want to build their confidence to sell more, this is for you.

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1-on-1 coaching

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Meet Up for Confidence - Iver

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Want to be a great role model to the younger generation?

You can! By working on yourself you start the ripple effect that is so important to our younger generation. So if you feel you need a change, if only for your children's sake, keep reading as I promote breaking negative habits so we only pass on our good bits!

Be the person you want your child to be.

We are always saying words of encouragement to our children: aim high, you can do it, be brave, stand up for yourself. How often do you say that to yourself?

Or is it more like: you're not good enough, you should have done it better, you'll never make it!  And then cry with frustration that yet another person has walked all over you!

 My motto is simple.

 Be the person you want your child to be. Take the advice you dish out, do the actions you speak of , and not only will your life be a huge success, but your child will naturally follow suit. 

“Tammy is very honest and forthright about her own struggles with anxiety and incredibly passionate about what she does. She has given me the most amazing advice and is certainly not just a shoulder to cry on but someone with real tools and systems to improve your life immediately. If you're looking for a professional, non-judgemental coach who has overcome huge hurdles to be where she is today and will help you do the same Tammy is the lady you are looking for.”

Lindsay Dean

Dress for success

Dress for confidence and boost your self-belief with positive affirmations.

Remind yourself that you have got this! My Motivated Mummies love to wear their 'I've Got This' tops during workouts, running their own business and any time they need a gentle reminder.

Also available in matching children's sizes and a range of colours.

*** New BELIEVE IN YOUR SELFIE t-shirts now in! ***

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What people say about Tammy


Laura Maton

Financial Educator - England

I have been working with Tammy for nearly a year now and she is just fabulous! She gives you a different perspective on things which is so helpful and says things how they need to be said. I have recently completed her Confidence in Business Training and it blew my mind. I knew it would be good having been part of her free Facebook group prior to this as well as coaching sessions, but I was not prepared for the depth and detail we went into. The best bit for me was the tasks and action plan to put what we learned into practice...just what I needed! Plus I now have a fabulous peer group for support. I would highly highly recommend jumping on board with Tammy.

Kelly Beyer

Angelic Healer  -America  

I absolutely positively give five stars!!!! ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
Tammy Rolfe is: amazing, intelligent, precise, compassionate, brilliant, and is the go-to expert for women who need clarity and are busy Moms who still need to leave an impact on the world through their business! I've had coaching sessions with Tammy that literally changed the trajectory of my business and my own perception of myself and my destiny. I cannot recommend her highly enough. I took a 6-week course with her and it shifted everything personally and in my business! I now have coaching sessions on a 1-1 on a regular basis. You owe it to yourself, your family and your future clients to either be coached by Tammy or participate in her online course! She truly is the go-to to increase your business and your personal development (both are directly connected).

Carla Edwards

Founder & Owner of Business Cuppa Connections - Australia

I have absolutely enjoyed being coached with the Motivated Mummies. Tammy has helped give me clarification and the tools I needed to get back on track clearing the brain clutter. In doing her course as well I now have more confidence stepping into the future with life and Business knowing that I also have found a tribe of amazing women that support each other I'm happy to call friends. Tammy's 1 on 1 coaching has helped me immensely I'll be forever grateful for her assistance and presence in my life. 

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No one can do it all alone. Who you spend time with is who you turn into. Surround yourself with those who want to see you succeed as much as you do!

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Nov 29, 2020

Join our community of strong determined women.

No one can do it all alone. Who you spend time with is who you turn into. Surround yourself with those who want to see you succeed as much as you do!

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Inspiration, Motivation and collaboration.

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If you are ready to invest in your future happiness, take action and see positive change, get in touch.

Tammy offers a complimentary call to help find the right support that suits you.